Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to avoid looking like this and still have a good physique?

ImprovingJuan

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in this guy the sunken cheekbones look great but he has hair and good genetics



in me i look like **** due to bad bone structure. Is there a safe BF% that you could say chicks will dig and where you can have some abs showing.

I'm 90 kg 1,76 m, i need to shed fat asap. But once i went from 90kg to 69/70kg and i had that look and i did not look healthy. I want to play it safe this time and not having that emaciated, unhealthy look.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrgoodstuff

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in this guy the sunken cheekbones look great but he has hair and good genetics



in me i look like **** due to bad bone structure. Is there a safe BF% that you could say chicks will dig and where you can have some abs showing.

I'm 90 kg 1,76 m, i need to shed fat asap. But once i went from 90kg to 69/70kg and i had that look and i did not look healthy. I want to play it safe this time and not having that emaciated, unhealthy look.
When you get closer to desired body weight adjust your diet and routine to be strong and healthy at that size. Eat healthy. Nourish yourself and stop trying to lose.
 

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in this guy the sunken cheekbones look great but he has hair and good genetics



in me i look like **** due to bad bone structure. Is there a safe BF% that you could say chicks will dig and where you can have some abs showing.

I'm 90 kg 1,76 m, i need to shed fat asap. But once i went from 90kg to 69/70kg and i had that look and i did not look healthy. I want to play it safe this time and not having that emaciated, unhealthy look.
Just keep an eye on it.

The only ugly people, where I'm at, are fat...

Fat subtly reduces symmetry.
 
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