"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to attract women ... by a real woman!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JackPrescott said:
Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.
I'll second that.

Because if you'd rather do without...

You'll be living in a house full of cats at forty wondering why no man wants to fvck you.
 

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JackPrescott said:
Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.
I am not on no manhunt! I am in a very happy relationship!

you do not know me so please refrain from telling me about myself
 

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HalfAddict said:
I'll second that.

Because if you'd rather do without...

You'll be living in a house full of cats at forty wondering why no man wants to fvck you.
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!

No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lishy said:
That is so true ... But I know I would rather do without than make do!

That's just what people say who are getting fvcked on the regular. Or at least people who are so unmotivated and hopeless that they've given up, or are abnormal in some other way, such as hormonally.
 

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Lishy said:
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!

No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.

OK so if that's true then that means men have inequality here. So why do women think they're entitled to equality where men naturally and historically held the advantage to balance this inequality or advantage you claim women have? That's right, "equality" is really just more inequality for men.

Oh yeah I forgot to mention any man can get sex to for some money. And probably from a hot girl. men having the financial advantage is equality!
 

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ketostix said:
That's just what people say who are getting fvcked on the regular. Or at least people who are so unmotivated and hopeless that they've given up, or are abnormal in some other way, such as hormonally.
I respectfully disagree.

How can you possibly figure out who YOU are if you are always gaming, getting laid, trying to figure out the opposite sex. Or those that flip flop/transition between partners. They have not a clue who they are and are usually just driven by their unstable hormones.

Some time away from relationships is a crucial step in processing how to approach the next one better. Also, people will repeat negative patterns until they realize the root (core) causes of such.

Not that this is your experience. Just a generalization that may answer why time away can also be beneficial.
 

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Commando said:
I respectfully disagree.

How can you possibly figure out who YOU are if you are always gaming, getting laid, trying to figure out the opposite sex. Or those that flip flop/transition between partners. They have not a clue who they are and are usually just driven by their unstable hormones.

Your mistake is you think a man's mind works the same as a woman's. We don't have such a problem that you're talking about. Stop trying to make men into women, and stop thinking you can think like a man does.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There is no formula to getting a girl.
 

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Lishy said:
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!

No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
Are you sure about that?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PGhnOXg4T0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W606TnucCCI&feature=related (WARNING: Disturbing content)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpYJXr0Cc5o

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8Nu6eW-fbo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3xYS9_ov1A

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6y0d0p_GXGM(WARNING: GRAPHIC)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QO5xUsffn8w

and the finale

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGEUhgwO1E4&NR=1

These may be extreme cases, but they demonstrate a point that [most] guys will not fvck anything that comes [rolling] their way.
 

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Commando,

You are operating under the assumption that a long-term relationship/marriage is the ultimate goal. Be careful of that. Many guys here are looking for an LTR. Many are not. Some want a gf, some want to bang hot women. Remember that when posting here. The ultimate goal for us here at SS is to improve our lives and to become better Men. We are all at different stages in this improvement. Success with women (as a gf or otherwise) is a by-product of that improvement.

Second, you have completely missed the point of Plate Theory. Plate Theory emphasizes options as the way to successfully find the right woman for you and reduce the chances for developing one-itis over an undeserving woman. It is just a convenient metaphor. Women spin plates all the time, except they have another name for it (casual dating). Women date multiple guys all the time. Why do they do this? They are looking for the bigger, better deal (BBD). They are keeping their options open. Do not think that this concept is gender specific.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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