"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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JackPrescott said:
Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.
I'll second that.

Because if you'd rather do without...

You'll be living in a house full of cats at forty wondering why no man wants to fvck you.
 

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JackPrescott said:
Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.
I am not on no manhunt! I am in a very happy relationship!

you do not know me so please refrain from telling me about myself
 

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HalfAddict said:
I'll second that.

Because if you'd rather do without...

You'll be living in a house full of cats at forty wondering why no man wants to fvck you.
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!

No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lishy said:
That is so true ... But I know I would rather do without than make do!

That's just what people say who are getting fvcked on the regular. Or at least people who are so unmotivated and hopeless that they've given up, or are abnormal in some other way, such as hormonally.
 

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Lishy said:
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!

No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.

OK so if that's true then that means men have inequality here. So why do women think they're entitled to equality where men naturally and historically held the advantage to balance this inequality or advantage you claim women have? That's right, "equality" is really just more inequality for men.

Oh yeah I forgot to mention any man can get sex to for some money. And probably from a hot girl. men having the financial advantage is equality!
 

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ketostix said:
That's just what people say who are getting fvcked on the regular. Or at least people who are so unmotivated and hopeless that they've given up, or are abnormal in some other way, such as hormonally.
I respectfully disagree.

How can you possibly figure out who YOU are if you are always gaming, getting laid, trying to figure out the opposite sex. Or those that flip flop/transition between partners. They have not a clue who they are and are usually just driven by their unstable hormones.

Some time away from relationships is a crucial step in processing how to approach the next one better. Also, people will repeat negative patterns until they realize the root (core) causes of such.

Not that this is your experience. Just a generalization that may answer why time away can also be beneficial.
 

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I respectfully disagree.

How can you possibly figure out who YOU are if you are always gaming, getting laid, trying to figure out the opposite sex. Or those that flip flop/transition between partners. They have not a clue who they are and are usually just driven by their unstable hormones.

Your mistake is you think a man's mind works the same as a woman's. We don't have such a problem that you're talking about. Stop trying to make men into women, and stop thinking you can think like a man does.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There is no formula to getting a girl.
 

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Lishy said:
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!

No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
Are you sure about that?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0PGhnOXg4T0

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W606TnucCCI&feature=related (WARNING: Disturbing content)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpYJXr0Cc5o

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f8Nu6eW-fbo

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3xYS9_ov1A

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6y0d0p_GXGM(WARNING: GRAPHIC)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QO5xUsffn8w

and the finale

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGEUhgwO1E4&NR=1

These may be extreme cases, but they demonstrate a point that [most] guys will not fvck anything that comes [rolling] their way.
 

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Commando,

You are operating under the assumption that a long-term relationship/marriage is the ultimate goal. Be careful of that. Many guys here are looking for an LTR. Many are not. Some want a gf, some want to bang hot women. Remember that when posting here. The ultimate goal for us here at SS is to improve our lives and to become better Men. We are all at different stages in this improvement. Success with women (as a gf or otherwise) is a by-product of that improvement.

Second, you have completely missed the point of Plate Theory. Plate Theory emphasizes options as the way to successfully find the right woman for you and reduce the chances for developing one-itis over an undeserving woman. It is just a convenient metaphor. Women spin plates all the time, except they have another name for it (casual dating). Women date multiple guys all the time. Why do they do this? They are looking for the bigger, better deal (BBD). They are keeping their options open. Do not think that this concept is gender specific.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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