JackPrescott
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Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.Lishy said:That is so true ... But I know I would rather do without than make do!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.Lishy said:That is so true ... But I know I would rather do without than make do!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'll second that.JackPrescott said:Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.
I am not on no manhunt! I am in a very happy relationship!JackPrescott said:Bull$hit. You are no different than the rest of them on the manhunt.
Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!HalfAddict said:I'll second that.
Because if you'd rather do without...
You'll be living in a house full of cats at forty wondering why no man wants to fvck you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lishy said:That is so true ... But I know I would rather do without than make do!
Lishy said:Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!
No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
I respectfully disagree.ketostix said:That's just what people say who are getting fvcked on the regular. Or at least people who are so unmotivated and hopeless that they've given up, or are abnormal in some other way, such as hormonally.
Commando said:I respectfully disagree.
How can you possibly figure out who YOU are if you are always gaming, getting laid, trying to figure out the opposite sex. Or those that flip flop/transition between partners. They have not a clue who they are and are usually just driven by their unstable hormones.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Are you sure about that?Lishy said:Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!
No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/member.php?u=21787Lishy said:Hunny let me school you .... All you need is a p***y and men will f*ck you - Its the nature of the beast!
No woman in the world HAS to go without sex through lack of interest.
editedNighthawk said:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.