Aaron B said:
i'm with anti-dump on this one
shy girls lose you
we talk so much here about as guys having to get out of comfort zones, approach women, overcome our fears etc.
well that goes for women as well. she can stay in her shell, but she can't stay in her shell and HAVE ME
even shy women are in fact women. they might not just jump out and start blwoing you in the lounge room, but they will make it known that they want to be presued.
I remember when I was in AA and I had just got clean, well not JUST got clean but i was new in recovery, about 5 months or so in. Just getting into shape, getting my swag back to to speak, i was feeling good about myself. For the first 6 months in my recovery I lived in a chem free house, well not lived htere, i still had a house, but i had to cheeck in and go to sleep at the chem free house. Anyway, one day i get back frrom the gym, there is this new chick. She's cute. Nice body, verynice body, not super hot face but definatly bangable. about a solid HB 6.5-7.
so I give her and everyone else a ride to the AA meeting. we go to the meeting, it is what it is, i drop them off and go back home. the next day i am sitting around getting ready to go to sleep and she just shows up and sits by me, doesnt' say 2 words. but she's really cute and you can stell she's really nice. just shy as ****. But still i'm not thinking anything of it. the next day she starts to talk and just ask off the wall questions. I mention I'm going to a meeting by myself, she asks can she tag along. After the meeting she asks "if you have something you need to do before you drop me off at the center you can do so i'm not in a hurry" lol. I knew then she liked me.
Mind you at the tiem I was driving a 98 Lexus SC300 (in 2004), the next day she comes up to me, gives me the keys to her car which was I think a 2004 or 2005 malibu, nice car... (showing her value) tells me or asks me to drive her to somewhere i forgot where becuase she didn't know where it was. by now, she's just become my tag along. Anywhere I'm going she's going. Hadn't said one word about dating, haven't kissed, but I knew. Anyway, about 1 saturday later, i had a date, went on the date, date ended earlier than I thought it would, she calls me and asks me would i mind driving out of town with her to a friends house. I'm like cool whatever. we go and she asks how my date went, I told her it didn't go so well, the girl was not my type, and she says "well you are looking in the wrong places" with kinda a smirk on her face. turns out the girl was freaking crazy about me. we started dating about a week later, actually one of the better relationships I have had besides my wife I have now. probably the 2nd best honestly. GREAT GF. i could take that girl to mcdonalds (and did, often) and she would be happy as long as it was with me. if she had not relapsed we might be still dating.
anyway, my point being, shy girls, even though shy, will let you know in their own way they like you.
