"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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okay wsup fellow dj's. lately i've been kickin' it with this chick from school. we started talking like 3 weeks ago and we have been going out [movies/dinner/bowling]. i try to make it fun here and there. i'm really happy when i'm with her and i can tell shes happy with me. we havn't done anything yet, not even kiss, DOH! but i'm gonna try on the next date. i'm gonna try that little tip on the homepage of sosuave.com, haha. the "Lay one on her". we'll see how that goes :D anyways, i was just wondering how do i ask her to be my gf? what things do i and do i not say to her while i'm asking her? i just dont want to be going out with her alot and not even be gf/bf cause i hate it when people play games on each other. i dont know if i put that in an understanding way but if anyone can clear that up and answer my question, i would greatly appreciate it. thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just kiss her!

Honestly, once you kiss her things will just unravel. When you walk take her hand, show some affection... treat her like your girlfriend. One kiss isnt something to jump to an exclusive relationship on - so leave it unspoken. She might ask "so... does this mean we are going out?" Smile, kiss her again, and say yes.

HOWEVER most girls appreciate it if you go with the flow... they wonder a little about the situation and just work harder to hold your attention. HAVE FUN WITH IT!
 
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so like slowly and slowly we will both think of the same thing and then out of nowhere we'll be gf/bf. just let it flow. i get it. thanks man. :D
 
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I think there was a thread I looked at a few days ago about the same thing.


But, yes I'd wait til that first kiss you ask her out. Go with it for a while, but you'll want to eventually ask her out. Regardless, most girls I know like to know if things are official or not.
 
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