"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to ask out a hairstylist at work?

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A few weeks ago I got my hair cut. I really liked the stylist. She shared a good bit of personal info and such (not unusual for a hair stylist to be chatty of course), but I couldn't figure out if it was ok to simply ask her out since I was in there as a customer. I have since gotten my hair cut again somewhere else but I pass this shop all the time and I still would at least like the chance for her to shoot me down. Any thoughts on how to ask someone out in this situation?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I would also like to know someone else's experience with this.

If anything, I'll just go for it next time. I always see cute girls when I get my hair cut, I'm sure all I have to do is grab my balls and approach her.
 
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Just like any other hired gun, you have to make her see you as more than someone who brings in money. Be open and personal while you're in the chair, get her to open up about her personal life. When you're done you should know enough about her (i.e. does she have a boyfriend, is she insane) to be comfortable enough to ask her for her number. Just gotta do it.
 
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Only problem with going back there again is the haircut wasn't all that great. Life is risk. Just like in any other situation, you have to strike at the earliest opportunity, because you never know if you're going to get another one.
 
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go get your haircut by her again. after it is finished and you have paid her, you could say something like:

do I have to wait until my hair gets too long to see you again?

!then do not speak! wait for her to answer, which you will obviously get.

if she turns you down, you can always just ask her if it is because you have such a terrible haircut :) if she doesnt find that funny, you wouldnt want to go out with her anyway. you cant lose.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Umm, this is really a difficult one. I hate these situations. You cannot mess up because you will see her again...
 
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