Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to ask out a bartender I'm friendly with

Willard

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I've been going to the same club the last three Saturday's. The first Saturday the bartender, pretty hot , late 20's, was getting my drinks really fast always smiling when she served me, not really with the other customers.

I went back on Monday she was waitressing, I didn't notice her, until she got off work and was having a drink. I started talking to her, she said she had noticed me before the last Saturday, she told me all the nights she worked and that I should come back and see her. I told her about my business, she said she might like my product so she said we should exchange phone numbers.

The next Saturday I gave her a card with a sample of my product. I got half my drinks for free, and she texted me the next morning saying it was the best gift ever.

Last Saturday same thing really friendly smiling a lot, getting my drinks first even If she was getting drinks for others, and half my drinks were free.

I was keeping her as a back burner possibility because I was seeing someone. I stopped seeing the girl and I want to pursue the bartender.

Should I text or call her, or see her when she is working? Normally I would have moved quicker, but I was being faithful to my ex.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheSlasher

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Just ask her out by text or however you like. Just do it, man. As long as you've got something to do where she could tag along, it's cool. After all, asking her out is the only way to find out how interested she is. But hey, I'm just a 21 y.o. kid so take my suggestion with a grain of salt.
 

Greasy Pig

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Her interest sounds high. Strike while the iron is hot and ask her out already!
 
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