"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to ask out a bartender I'm friendly with

Willard

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I've been going to the same club the last three Saturday's. The first Saturday the bartender, pretty hot , late 20's, was getting my drinks really fast always smiling when she served me, not really with the other customers.

I went back on Monday she was waitressing, I didn't notice her, until she got off work and was having a drink. I started talking to her, she said she had noticed me before the last Saturday, she told me all the nights she worked and that I should come back and see her. I told her about my business, she said she might like my product so she said we should exchange phone numbers.

The next Saturday I gave her a card with a sample of my product. I got half my drinks for free, and she texted me the next morning saying it was the best gift ever.

Last Saturday same thing really friendly smiling a lot, getting my drinks first even If she was getting drinks for others, and half my drinks were free.

I was keeping her as a back burner possibility because I was seeing someone. I stopped seeing the girl and I want to pursue the bartender.

Should I text or call her, or see her when she is working? Normally I would have moved quicker, but I was being faithful to my ex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheSlasher

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Just ask her out by text or however you like. Just do it, man. As long as you've got something to do where she could tag along, it's cool. After all, asking her out is the only way to find out how interested she is. But hey, I'm just a 21 y.o. kid so take my suggestion with a grain of salt.
 

Greasy Pig

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Her interest sounds high. Strike while the iron is hot and ask her out already!
 
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