HOw to ask her on a day 2 date

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So went out with this woman last wednesday. Sat outside a cafe with a couple of beers. seemed to hit it off. no awkward silences. common interests etc. date ended with a hug and i said i'd call her again.

On the fence about seeing her again but as my diary is a little empty and i have a few days off work thought I'd see if she's up for meeting again. What would be a good opener? Fancy meeting again? Let's meet again? Did you find any new parks lately? IDeas?

 

[Starfvcks 64]

"{her name} it was nice meeting you the other day. What night are you free to grab drinks?"

That is what I use, every, single time. The only change I sometimes make is
"I'll be in {her area} tonight let's meet up later"

Even if people say it's not a good line, it doesn't matter because it works. It's direct and to the point, and you will know if she's interested based on her response.

I usually lie when I say I'm in her town for work that day. If a girl makes time on such short notice, that's a good sign.

 

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"{her name} it was nice meeting you the other day. What night are you free to grab drinks?"
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i haven't contacted this woman since the date 9 days ago. do you think that would matter if i used this line?

 

[Andre2807]

Why did you wait so long? As a rule of thumb, I set up another date during the first one.

 

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Why did you wait so long? As a rule of thumb, I set up another date during the first one.

Was kind of on the fence about her. take it or leave it.

 

[El Payaso]

Be direct. Don't try to be entertaining, cute, funny out whatever. Say what you want to say and leave it at that especially over text. Women know a panderer who is trying to entertain them and a man who wants to take them out.

9 days is not too long but you need to ask her out as soon as possible. If she asks why you waited so long, just say you were busy and certainly, do NOT apologize.

 

[Harry Wilmington]

I've waited weeks to ask a girl on a 2nd date before. If you don't act like it's a big deal that you waited so long, they typically won't bring it up. So... hit her up and sound excited, like you suddenly found something cool to do and want to take her. Something like...

You: (Make phone call)
Her: (picks up) "Hello?"
You: (with urgency in your voice) "Hey, (name), how are you?"
Her: "Fine..."
You: "Great - hey, quick question: what are you doing on, saaaay, Tuesday or Thursday?"
Her: "Well, I dunno yet... why, what's up?"
You: "Oh, great - well, I just found this new (restaurant, park, activity) on yelp (Yes, actually go on Yelp and look something up) and was wanting to try it out, and I wanted to take you with me, you down to go?"

Assuming she says "Sure, I'd love to," give her a date and time, then hang up and wait until the date meet up to talk to her again. That's pretty much it.

 

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ok. got my day 2 secured. now what to do? you guys know i just want to bang but of course i can't just come out and say this. just meet for a drink and see what happens? or do something more exciting? suggestions on date ideas please.

or shall i just say 'your place or mine?'