"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to ask her on a date, when in front of other people

PoZest

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Theres this girl I like that I see almost daily, but only for a few seconds when busy in work, and I feel like she likes me too, but shes quiet.
Is there a way I can ask her on a date, when the only times I see her she's in a room with other people around who would definitely be listening?
Do I involve them too and jokingly say "I think me and her should go on a date" or just say it to her but knowing others will hear?
Can't really speak to her alone.
These are people I see almost every day in work, and sort of known them a while.
Any advice on how I can ask her, or even just signal that I'm into her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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You shouldn't be asking women you work with out on dates. It usually ends badly
 

wifehunter

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no big deal..quit your job, get a new one, and just invite her on your next adventure.
 
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