Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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joe45

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ok with u guys do u usually make small talk about the course u both are taking togther and then maybe after a while of just being casual aquintances and nothing more-just the girl u see in class and , ask the girl you like out , or do u guys be freinds first with the girl and then ask her out.
the last time i asked a gal out was the first method made small talk and guess what it blew in my face, i asked her out right after our class to go have a cup of coffee with me and she said no maybe anpother time, 3 days later she told everyone in my class-college i got these smirks and smiles -it was embarassing too considereing the college i go to is small. everyone nows everyone-pretty much. and guess what i didn't even say anyhthing sexual or unappropriate -jsut cas converstions about her courses she was taking
my freind said i scared the girl off by going too fast and asking the girl out right away, as i should have gotten to now her more first as a person.
any thoughts guys what do u guys do if u like a girl in one of ur classes. funny thing is the same girl had 1 class with me in the previous semester and also in other semesters too was always looking at me , she never went up to me and talked to me. i took the glances and looks as interested motions-yea but then why would she say NO then funny hey.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Tazman

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I don't see anything wrong with your approach. I think she probably just wasn't interested for whatever reason. You may have misinterpreted her signs of interest, but no matter what man, keep doing it. If people are smiling and smirking at you for trying to ask a girl out just laugh. It's nothing to be embarrassed about, your a "guy," that's what we have to do in order to make things happen.
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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man...thats tough, thats why i would only ask a chick out in class only if i was really sure she liked me.If not, then i'd wait till class is over, and ask her out. Seriously, imagine going on a date with a chick on sat. then seeing her in class on monday...seems wierd.
 
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