"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok with u guys do u usually make small talk about the course u both are taking togther and then maybe after a while of just being casual aquintances and nothing more-just the girl u see in class and , ask the girl you like out , or do u guys be freinds first with the girl and then ask her out.
the last time i asked a gal out was the first method made small talk and guess what it blew in my face, i asked her out right after our class to go have a cup of coffee with me and she said no maybe anpother time, 3 days later she told everyone in my class-college i got these smirks and smiles -it was embarassing too considereing the college i go to is small. everyone nows everyone-pretty much. and guess what i didn't even say anyhthing sexual or unappropriate -jsut cas converstions about her courses she was taking
my freind said i scared the girl off by going too fast and asking the girl out right away, as i should have gotten to now her more first as a person.
any thoughts guys what do u guys do if u like a girl in one of ur classes. funny thing is the same girl had 1 class with me in the previous semester and also in other semesters too was always looking at me , she never went up to me and talked to me. i took the glances and looks as interested motions-yea but then why would she say NO then funny hey.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't see anything wrong with your approach. I think she probably just wasn't interested for whatever reason. You may have misinterpreted her signs of interest, but no matter what man, keep doing it. If people are smiling and smirking at you for trying to ask a girl out just laugh. It's nothing to be embarrassed about, your a "guy," that's what we have to do in order to make things happen.
 
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man...thats tough, thats why i would only ask a chick out in class only if i was really sure she liked me.If not, then i'd wait till class is over, and ask her out. Seriously, imagine going on a date with a chick on sat. then seeing her in class on monday...seems wierd.
 
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