“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to Ask a Girl to Be Your G/F

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How about you ask her "Hey, so tell me about your past boyfriends. What made you stick with them , and be their girlfriend? Why did you be their girlfriend?"
Something to that effect. If she's interested, she will begin dropping hints at how, and why and when.
And as always, you need to be touching her intimately like a man to his woman. Look into her eyes, and be sexually playful. Nothing obviously intended for the bedroom though.
No AFC wusiness. Act like she's your's already, and you're trying to find out what your woman wants.
If her IL is high, she WILL drop hints. She will talk about what qualities they had, and how she was seduced, etc.
Pay attention. She may perk up and start to give you the lead and info on how to do this, she will also start to hear indirectly that you DO have in mind the exclusivity arrangement.
Good luck.

But NO: "Will you please be my GF?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CORVETTE06 said:
...I think a lot of it depends on the girl. The girl that I have been goin out wit the past month and a half is a Very nice girl. Everytime i hung out with her, i see her parents (who are very nice to me) and talk to them...
It has nothing to do with the girl...
CORVETTE06 said:
...After reading these posts, I am still left with the same question...

Do I ask her since she might be shy and doesnt want to ask me?
See, told 'ya that it has nothing to do with the girl...
CORVETTE06 said:
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Do I say something that indirectly hints towards it, and see how she responds and make my next move based on her response?
Afraid of her rejecting 'ya huh?
CORVETTE06 said:
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Or Do I still continue to just keep it cool?
Does 'keep it cool' mean 'avoid doing anything in the hopes that you will be lucky enough that the situation plays out in your favor without any action on your part?'
 
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