"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to ask a girl to be my girlfriend

SteelCity10

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So there's this girl I like and she likes me too and I don't know how to ask her to be my girlfriend. What do I say? Do I just say, do you want to go out with me? Do I say, do you want to be my girlfriend? We hung out once at the mall and everything went well. Her friends keep asking if were going out yet. What do I say?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You don't say anything. You seduct her till she wants nothing else, the time being at least. I used to wonder this as a teenager, and I found that its best not to ask her. One chick, in college mind you, asked me 'will you be my boyfriend?' and I've gotta say it felt really strange! Take it for what its worth. Just keep her guessing, make her keep wondering if he'll ask or not while continuing to seduce her, read the articles. good luck
 

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Just go on a lot of dates and eventually she will say something along the lines of:
"What are we to each other?" which usually happens to me, or she will just start calling you her boyfriend, it's not like an exact date or moment type of thing. I say just try not to answer your friends as group dynamics can get a little messy, and instead hang out or rather you need go on a DATE with her again. If you do this without being asexual then eventually she will want you guys to be exclusive and bring up the topic.

-ArcBound
 

eaglez1177

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SteelCity10 said:
So there's this girl I like and she likes me too and I don't know how to ask her to be my girlfriend. What do I say? Do I just say, do you want to go out with me? Do I say, do you want to be my girlfriend? We hung out once at the mall and everything went well. Her friends keep asking if were going out yet. What do I say?
If her friends ask, just be honest and tell them you're not going out. As for getting her to be your girlfriend, its better to wait until SHE brings the topic up. Like ArcBound said, she'll prolly say something along the lines of "what are we to each other" or "where do we go from here" or anything that refers to the situation of your relations with her.

When she does say something like that, imo its best to say somethin like "Your my girlfriend" or "I want you to be my girlfriend", and then just leave it at that. That way your not stuck having to "ask" her. Similar to the whole "telling" a girl you want to hang out rather than "asking" her to hang out.
 

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Well she knows I like her and i know she likes me and today she asked me if I was a virgin then she asked me if I wanted to go hot tubbing with her this weekend so I'm pretty sure she wants my ****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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eaglez1177

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SteelCity10 said:
Well she knows I like her and i know she likes me and today she asked me if I was a virgin then she asked me if I wanted to go hot tubbing with her this weekend so I'm pretty sure she wants my ****.
Haha hell yea dude looks like your in a good situation to get laid :up:
 
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