"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to ask a girl to be my girlfriend

SteelCity10

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So there's this girl I like and she likes me too and I don't know how to ask her to be my girlfriend. What do I say? Do I just say, do you want to go out with me? Do I say, do you want to be my girlfriend? We hung out once at the mall and everything went well. Her friends keep asking if were going out yet. What do I say?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You don't say anything. You seduct her till she wants nothing else, the time being at least. I used to wonder this as a teenager, and I found that its best not to ask her. One chick, in college mind you, asked me 'will you be my boyfriend?' and I've gotta say it felt really strange! Take it for what its worth. Just keep her guessing, make her keep wondering if he'll ask or not while continuing to seduce her, read the articles. good luck
 

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Just go on a lot of dates and eventually she will say something along the lines of:
"What are we to each other?" which usually happens to me, or she will just start calling you her boyfriend, it's not like an exact date or moment type of thing. I say just try not to answer your friends as group dynamics can get a little messy, and instead hang out or rather you need go on a DATE with her again. If you do this without being asexual then eventually she will want you guys to be exclusive and bring up the topic.

-ArcBound
 

eaglez1177

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SteelCity10 said:
So there's this girl I like and she likes me too and I don't know how to ask her to be my girlfriend. What do I say? Do I just say, do you want to go out with me? Do I say, do you want to be my girlfriend? We hung out once at the mall and everything went well. Her friends keep asking if were going out yet. What do I say?
If her friends ask, just be honest and tell them you're not going out. As for getting her to be your girlfriend, its better to wait until SHE brings the topic up. Like ArcBound said, she'll prolly say something along the lines of "what are we to each other" or "where do we go from here" or anything that refers to the situation of your relations with her.

When she does say something like that, imo its best to say somethin like "Your my girlfriend" or "I want you to be my girlfriend", and then just leave it at that. That way your not stuck having to "ask" her. Similar to the whole "telling" a girl you want to hang out rather than "asking" her to hang out.
 

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Well she knows I like her and i know she likes me and today she asked me if I was a virgin then she asked me if I wanted to go hot tubbing with her this weekend so I'm pretty sure she wants my ****.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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eaglez1177

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SteelCity10 said:
Well she knows I like her and i know she likes me and today she asked me if I was a virgin then she asked me if I wanted to go hot tubbing with her this weekend so I'm pretty sure she wants my ****.
Haha hell yea dude looks like your in a good situation to get laid :up:
 
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