"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to ask a girl for a second date (she has been playing games)

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I met this girl 2 weeks ago and asked for her number. Me messaged a bit here and there (I didn't want to seem too needy) and I got her out on a date on Monday. The date went really well, took her to one venue before bouncing her to a second, quiet bar. Was kissing her there for over an hour and she was biting my ear and even licked my face at one point.

I drove her home after and on the way home at a set of traffic lights she jumped on top of me and started making out with me. Got to her house, started making out with her again, was rubbing her ***** on the outside of her pants and I sucked on her tits but that's all she would let me do. I thought fair enough (she is a solid 9, so wouldn't want to appear easy).

She texts me as soon as I get home saying she hoped I got home safe and thanks for a great night and that she had a lot of fun.

I replied 10 mins later saying I had fun too and that we should do it again soon.(she didn't reply to that, but i didn't expect one)


I text her the next day at 8pm (tues night) and said "did you manage to keep out of trouble today missy" (reference from a joke the previous night) and she did not respond til 8am thursday.

She said "haha i always try to be" then "sorry for the late reply, work has been crazy"..keep in mind she is at uni and doesn't have a full time job

Today is Friday, I didn't reply to her message above ^.

Is she no longer interested or just playing hard to get?

Should I ignore her for a few more days and then message her? I feel if I leave it too long, she may no longer be interested and lose attraction for me, even though the first date went really well. How would I approach asking for a second date

What to do....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Find another woman and ignore her. If she's interested she will come around
 
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You're the One That Needs to Stop Playing Games

Why does sound like one of pyros, "dates?"
 
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How to ask for the second date?

Well, you suggest the date idea. If she agrees, and seems flexible, then you set up a date - time and date, etc.

If she does not submit, or plays games with you (giving excuses why can't she make it up, this and that), hang down the phone and "NEXT" her. Do not call her back again ... cause she is NOT interested in you.

Instead of wasting your precious time, move on and find another one who is receptive to your date ideas

Hope this helps :)
 
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Maximus Rex said:
Why does sound like one of pyros, "dates?"
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why does it sound like you have nothing else in your life besides thinking about me? oh, cause you're paranoid, I forgot.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think you overcommunicated a little bit after your first date. After you got home I would reply that I had fun too and THAT WOULD BE IT.

I would not contact her , at least not the very next day. Would wait for her to innitiate or after 4-5 days invited her to a date with good logistics for a fvckclose.

Just my opinion tho.
 
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