How to ask a girl for a second date (she has been playing games)

[swonez777]

I met this girl 2 weeks ago and asked for her number. Me messaged a bit here and there (I didn't want to seem too needy) and I got her out on a date on Monday. The date went really well, took her to one venue before bouncing her to a second, quiet bar. Was kissing her there for over an hour and she was biting my ear and even licked my face at one point.

I drove her home after and on the way home at a set of traffic lights she jumped on top of me and started making out with me. Got to her house, started making out with her again, was rubbing her ***** on the outside of her pants and I sucked on her tits but that's all she would let me do. I thought fair enough (she is a solid 9, so wouldn't want to appear easy).

She texts me as soon as I get home saying she hoped I got home safe and thanks for a great night and that she had a lot of fun.

I replied 10 mins later saying I had fun too and that we should do it again soon.(she didn't reply to that, but i didn't expect one)


I text her the next day at 8pm (tues night) and said "did you manage to keep out of trouble today missy" (reference from a joke the previous night) and she did not respond til 8am thursday.

She said "haha i always try to be" then "sorry for the late reply, work has been crazy"..keep in mind she is at uni and doesn't have a full time job

Today is Friday, I didn't reply to her message above ^.

Is she no longer interested or just playing hard to get?

Should I ignore her for a few more days and then message her? I feel if I leave it too long, she may no longer be interested and lose attraction for me, even though the first date went really well. How would I approach asking for a second date

What to do....

 

[skinnyguy]

Find another woman and ignore her. If she's interested she will come around

 

[Maximus Rex]

You're the One That Needs to Stop Playing Games

Why does sound like one of pyros, "dates?"

 

[aforabi]

How to ask for the second date?

Well, you suggest the date idea. If she agrees, and seems flexible, then you set up a date - time and date, etc.

If she does not submit, or plays games with you (giving excuses why can't she make it up, this and that), hang down the phone and "NEXT" her. Do not call her back again ... cause she is NOT interested in you.

Instead of wasting your precious time, move on and find another one who is receptive to your date ideas

Hope this helps

 

[pyros]

Why does sound like one of pyros, "dates?"

why does it sound like you have nothing else in your life besides thinking about me? oh, cause you're paranoid, I forgot.

 

[Infern0]

Don't.

She's playing games, NEXT.

 

[blind_one]

I think you overcommunicated a little bit after your first date. After you got home I would reply that I had fun too and THAT WOULD BE IT.

I would not contact her , at least not the very next day. Would wait for her to innitiate or after 4-5 days invited her to a date with good logistics for a fvckclose.

Just my opinion tho.