My prom is coming up in alittle under a month. I was thinking about asking my friend but just as friends. I want my prom night to be causal. She goes to a different school and I only see her at church or the weekends. I wanted to ask her ASAP so it will give us both time to get outdfits, arrangments etc. But I wanted to ask her face to face but I would have to wait until the end of the week. If I had to do it ASAP that will mean I'll have to ask her over the phone or through a text messeage (I only see her on the weekends). Is it bad to ask a friend to prom through the phone/text? Or should I just wait do it face to face?
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How to ask a friend to prom
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