"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to ask a friend to prom

rkc09

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My prom is coming up in alittle under a month. I was thinking about asking my friend but just as friends. I want my prom night to be causal. She goes to a different school and I only see her at church or the weekends. I wanted to ask her ASAP so it will give us both time to get outdfits, arrangments etc. But I wanted to ask her face to face but I would have to wait until the end of the week. If I had to do it ASAP that will mean I'll have to ask her over the phone or through a text messeage (I only see her on the weekends). Is it bad to ask a friend to prom through the phone/text? Or should I just wait do it face to face?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eaglez1177

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Prom is coming up under a month and you still havent asked? Sorry bro but your prolly too late.
 

Following_of_Me

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If she's just a friend, it doesn't matter. She doesn't go to your school, so it's not like it's a big deal. You need a date, and you'd like her to come with you. So call her up to talk, and when you get the chance, say "hey, you know my prom is coming up and I still don't have a date, would you like to come?", considering your just friends, don't worry so much about how you ask her, she'll prob go with you.
 
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