"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to approach without coming off as too horny/too sex-driven?

Demystify

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Does anyone have any advice for approaching girls without them thinking you're just another horny guy? I often get that vibe from them.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Demystify said:
Does anyone have any advice for approaching girls without them thinking you're just another horny guy? I often get that vibe from them.
why?, what do u normally say
 

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The claim you ought to remember for this is that sex is a byproduct that occurs when you have fun with a girl.

Thus, do not go on a date thinking what one can do so that one gets sex, but just think of being fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Demystify said:
Does anyone have any advice for approaching girls without them thinking you're just another horny guy? I often get that vibe from them.
Go up to them and be like:

"Just so you know right now, (pause for suspence) Im just another one of those horny guys at the club, but since I don't know you yet Im going to have to settle on talking to you first, are you ready?"

Then go interview style on them.

Sooooo ... Whats your name?? (Act like your searching for words trying to keep the convo goin)

Umm ... whats your favorite color?

Where are you from?


Smile and be confident and deliver this tounge and cheek, then break the character and move onto your usual ****. Hopefully the above isnt your "usual" ****. lol.
 
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