"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how to approach without coming off as too horny/too sex-driven?

Demystify

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Does anyone have any advice for approaching girls without them thinking you're just another horny guy? I often get that vibe from them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Demystify said:
Does anyone have any advice for approaching girls without them thinking you're just another horny guy? I often get that vibe from them.
why?, what do u normally say
 

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The claim you ought to remember for this is that sex is a byproduct that occurs when you have fun with a girl.

Thus, do not go on a date thinking what one can do so that one gets sex, but just think of being fun.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Demystify said:
Does anyone have any advice for approaching girls without them thinking you're just another horny guy? I often get that vibe from them.
Go up to them and be like:

"Just so you know right now, (pause for suspence) Im just another one of those horny guys at the club, but since I don't know you yet Im going to have to settle on talking to you first, are you ready?"

Then go interview style on them.

Sooooo ... Whats your name?? (Act like your searching for words trying to keep the convo goin)

Umm ... whats your favorite color?

Where are you from?


Smile and be confident and deliver this tounge and cheek, then break the character and move onto your usual ****. Hopefully the above isnt your "usual" ****. lol.
 
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