"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to approach this girl whom I have been ignoring..

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in the past due to my AFC behavior?

Here`s a bit of details. Shez a year senior to me in college.She even tried to give me her number through her friends last year but I was too dumb to take it. Now, I still know that shez interested but the problem is we don`t have any common friends or anything. A couple of days I sat next to her in the computer lab but one of her friend was with her so I coudn`t initiate anything. And this is very rare too.AS I said, going upto her kinda seem strange since I had been ignoring her in the past.She`d think how come all of a sudden I`m interested now. And even if I do what do I say?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We don`t have any classes together. That was just a fluke that I got to sit next to her in the lab for a few mins, it wasn`t a regular class.

How about me going up to her outside class and saying hi? and something like " I have seen you around,I thought I should say hi"?
 
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