"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to approach this girl whom I have been ignoring..

chicmagnet

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in the past due to my AFC behavior?

Here`s a bit of details. Shez a year senior to me in college.She even tried to give me her number through her friends last year but I was too dumb to take it. Now, I still know that shez interested but the problem is we don`t have any common friends or anything. A couple of days I sat next to her in the computer lab but one of her friend was with her so I coudn`t initiate anything. And this is very rare too.AS I said, going upto her kinda seem strange since I had been ignoring her in the past.She`d think how come all of a sudden I`m interested now. And even if I do what do I say?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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We don`t have any classes together. That was just a fluke that I got to sit next to her in the lab for a few mins, it wasn`t a regular class.

How about me going up to her outside class and saying hi? and something like " I have seen you around,I thought I should say hi"?
 
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