"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How To Approach A Random Girl In The Hallway

RainOfDarkness

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So everyonce in a while I'll see this incredibly cute girl walking in the hallway at my school. Unfortunatly, I have no idea who she is, or what her name is or anything. I'm pretty sure she's a freshman also because I'm in 11th grade and I've never seen her before. I really want to go up and talk to her without seeming creepy. Is there anything I could say to her that would be charming or flirty or something without coming off as a creep, giving that we've never met? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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LearningSlowly

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When I read the title, I wanted to read the post. The post sucked.

The better post:
"Here's how to approach a random girl in a hallway. I went up to her and said hi, she looked at me like I was really creepy. So I put my suave face on and..."

Create your own adventure.
 

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RainOfDarkness said:
So everyonce in a while I'll see this incredibly cute girl walking in the hallway at my school. Unfortunatly, I have no idea who she is, or what her name is or anything. I'm pretty sure she's a freshman also because I'm in 11th grade and I've never seen her before. I really want to go up and talk to her without seeming creepy. Is there anything I could say to her that would be charming or flirty or something without coming off as a creep, giving that we've never met? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!

The DJ Bible explains how to approach any girl in any situations, go read that section.
 

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walk up and say hi, i've noticed you walking in the hallways and you seem to have a bright smile on your face everytime did i mention i love happy people? My names blah blah. she'll most likely tell you hers
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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