"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How To Approach A Random Girl In The Hallway

RainOfDarkness

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So everyonce in a while I'll see this incredibly cute girl walking in the hallway at my school. Unfortunatly, I have no idea who she is, or what her name is or anything. I'm pretty sure she's a freshman also because I'm in 11th grade and I've never seen her before. I really want to go up and talk to her without seeming creepy. Is there anything I could say to her that would be charming or flirty or something without coming off as a creep, giving that we've never met? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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LearningSlowly

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When I read the title, I wanted to read the post. The post sucked.

The better post:
"Here's how to approach a random girl in a hallway. I went up to her and said hi, she looked at me like I was really creepy. So I put my suave face on and..."

Create your own adventure.
 

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RainOfDarkness said:
So everyonce in a while I'll see this incredibly cute girl walking in the hallway at my school. Unfortunatly, I have no idea who she is, or what her name is or anything. I'm pretty sure she's a freshman also because I'm in 11th grade and I've never seen her before. I really want to go up and talk to her without seeming creepy. Is there anything I could say to her that would be charming or flirty or something without coming off as a creep, giving that we've never met? Any help would be appreciated. Thank you!

The DJ Bible explains how to approach any girl in any situations, go read that section.
 

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walk up and say hi, i've noticed you walking in the hallways and you seem to have a bright smile on your face everytime did i mention i love happy people? My names blah blah. she'll most likely tell you hers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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