“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to approach a potential girlfriend

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Hello, I've been hanging around with a girl that's been giving me some signs of love interest. How should I confess that I like her since we've met recently? Straight up try to kiss her in a moody opportunity or just explain my feelings? (We mostly go for walks and explore the city).

Thanks
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hello, I've been hanging around with a girl that's been giving me some signs of love interest. How should I confess that I like her since we've met recently? Straight up try to kiss her in a moody opportunity or just explain my feelings? (We mostly go for walks and explore the city).

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Never talk about it. This isn't some Rom Com or Disney movie...that will get you friendzoned faster than you can say "friendzone".

Make a move...try and kiss her and then continue to escalate towards sex.
 

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Never talk about it. This isn't some Rom Com or Disney movie...that will get you friendzoned faster than you can say "friendzone".

Make a move...try and kiss her and then continue to escalate towards sex.
Imagine you're talking about work school, or something else. How would you switch up to a romantic vibe?
 

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From your posting, it sounds like you might be a little uneasy about the transition.

You'll want to do something sooner rather than later .. because you do not want her to become accustomed to the current friendship dynamic. If she's already there in a friendship type relationship, a kiss might take her by surprise (and possibly not a good surprise). Hard to tell.

If you want to be more subtle (and work your way up to more) ... when walking through a door you can place your hand on her back as she's walking through. Do you walk up hills together? If so, extend your hand and 'help her up that hill.'
 

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Easy peasy. Next time you are out walking, hold her hand. Her response will tell you everything you need to know.
Or walk behind her and make a comment about how she has to stop wearing such tight jeans or you are going to be stuck behind her all night long looking at her @ss and then say how you are doing such a great job not giving in and grabbing it. And then laugh.

Her response to this will also tell you what you need to know. A positive response means she is down for it...
 

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Hello, I've been hanging around with a girl that's been giving me some signs of love interest. How should I confess that I like her since we've met recently? Straight up try to kiss her in a moody opportunity or just explain my feelings? (We mostly go for walks and explore the city).

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How do you know she's really into you?
 
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