"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to answer this question?
- Thread starter Littles
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Well, ask me a thing or two you want to know about me in particular, and Ill see if I can tell you. . . . .
She asks, just answer, no big deal, dont go blah blah about yourself. If you hit a long uncompfortable pause, get closer to her and kino, take her hand for instance. When you talking to the girl lean back, spread your arms and just relax.
Strip Club Inspector
Banned
Or, you can bring up something kind of dopey that chicks are into, like personality tests or horoscopes or the ennegram, etc.
This is like the comment "Say something funny."Littles said:Tell me about yourself.
I have no clue how to answer this. I just started getting my life on track and don't really want to get in to it with someone I just met. So whats a good answer? or How do I dodge this question?
I'm a funny guy. I got this from a girl I once dated.
That's like kryptonite for me. I become seriously unfunny when I'm forced into coming up with something.
But, you can always come up with something for when she asks you in the future.
I got this from a woman, and I just talked about random stuff. Not the best answer. "Well, I graduated from this school, you already know I'm an entertainer..." I DID manage to end with:
I'm an Aries. I like long walks on the beach, I would love world peace, puppies... and one of my hobbies is I study squirrels. I give them tranquilizers, wait till they're asleep, I sneak up to them and shave off all their fur. You know... just to see what happens to their self esteem when they're bald.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Umm how about:Littles said:Tell me about yourself.
I have no clue how to answer this. I just started getting my life on track and don't really want to get in to it with someone I just met. So whats a good answer? or How do I dodge this question?
"What would you like to know?"
If you sincerely don't know what she's asking, ASK HER! Just because you meet someone with little communication skills who ask ambiguous questions, you don't need to respond by guessing what they'd like to know. Besides, what she may be doing is attempting to qualify you. Turn it around and qualify her by taking note about the types of questions she asks you. For example, does she want to know about you or is she more interested in what you do or what you have.
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Imagine what you can do by explaining the test, how it works, what you are, what it says (positive) about you, and then inviting her to take it and then you can compare notes. (You can also just guess what she is and start telling her what it means).
It's basically like palm reading, but it has the patina of scientific validity.