"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to answer the: 'How was your summer?' question

1life

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Alright guys, well I'm going back to school tomorrow and I was wondering how I could answer the kind of questions like: 'How was your summer?' or 'What did you do during your summer?'. To be honest, I didn't have a really great summer, I mean, I did the usual crazy stuff with my friends, but you know, it's nothing to tell a girl about lol. And I didn't have a job (im 16 btw).

SO, please give me a clue by answering this question right now on this forum :)

Thanks alot!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WesCottII

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Lie.

Make up some stories that she can never prove wrong, make them believable......but fun.

It's not lying, it's flirting.
 

TheNewGuy

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"Hahahaha, yeah lets not talk about that. What did you do during yours?"

Increases mystery, opens her to a question.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GaryUranga

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say a ridiculously exiting story she'll know youre lying but never tell her the truth, if she asks again tell her another story, and ask about hers, she'll give up and the mystery will still be there.
 

guess_who

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If she's asks how was your summer, say:

"Great. We had a hb isn't here party. It was awesome. Like, everyone was there. There was live music, catered food. Strippers. Hb, shoulda been... oh yeah, never mind".

If she asks what did you do say:

"Your sister".

Mom might also work for this one.

If your really freaky, you could say "your dog"...
 
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