"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to answer the: 'How was your summer?' question

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Alright guys, well I'm going back to school tomorrow and I was wondering how I could answer the kind of questions like: 'How was your summer?' or 'What did you do during your summer?'. To be honest, I didn't have a really great summer, I mean, I did the usual crazy stuff with my friends, but you know, it's nothing to tell a girl about lol. And I didn't have a job (im 16 btw).

SO, please give me a clue by answering this question right now on this forum :)

Thanks alot!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WesCottII

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Lie.

Make up some stories that she can never prove wrong, make them believable......but fun.

It's not lying, it's flirting.
 

TheNewGuy

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"Hahahaha, yeah lets not talk about that. What did you do during yours?"

Increases mystery, opens her to a question.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GaryUranga

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say a ridiculously exiting story she'll know youre lying but never tell her the truth, if she asks again tell her another story, and ask about hers, she'll give up and the mystery will still be there.
 

guess_who

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If she's asks how was your summer, say:

"Great. We had a hb isn't here party. It was awesome. Like, everyone was there. There was live music, catered food. Strippers. Hb, shoulda been... oh yeah, never mind".

If she asks what did you do say:

"Your sister".

Mom might also work for this one.

If your really freaky, you could say "your dog"...
 
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