"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to answer the: 'How was your summer?' question

1life

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Alright guys, well I'm going back to school tomorrow and I was wondering how I could answer the kind of questions like: 'How was your summer?' or 'What did you do during your summer?'. To be honest, I didn't have a really great summer, I mean, I did the usual crazy stuff with my friends, but you know, it's nothing to tell a girl about lol. And I didn't have a job (im 16 btw).

SO, please give me a clue by answering this question right now on this forum :)

Thanks alot!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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WesCottII

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Lie.

Make up some stories that she can never prove wrong, make them believable......but fun.

It's not lying, it's flirting.
 

TheNewGuy

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"Hahahaha, yeah lets not talk about that. What did you do during yours?"

Increases mystery, opens her to a question.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GaryUranga

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say a ridiculously exiting story she'll know youre lying but never tell her the truth, if she asks again tell her another story, and ask about hers, she'll give up and the mystery will still be there.
 

guess_who

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If she's asks how was your summer, say:

"Great. We had a hb isn't here party. It was awesome. Like, everyone was there. There was live music, catered food. Strippers. Hb, shoulda been... oh yeah, never mind".

If she asks what did you do say:

"Your sister".

Mom might also work for this one.

If your really freaky, you could say "your dog"...
 
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