How to act with this one

[crimsonclockwork]

In the past few months I have (in my mind) evolved into quite a Dj... In the sense of not letting girls become priority number one and focusing on just getting girls and letting me depress me and all that stuff.

So anyways, I decided to go after them again with new knowledge, and my target was deffinatly a challenging one. I went after, gained alot, and won out. Anyways, heres my story:

I went after this girl more or less, and shes pretty much a slut with high standards (in guys, as in she dates older guys). Im younger than her by a few months, but thats what the challange was. Anyhow, we hang out and all that. She brings her friend along alot, and we're all chilling and whatnot. Fast foward a few months, and now me and this girl are pretty much done. We're actually really good friends now and Im going after her friend.

Her friend has never had a boyfriend before. Shes just damn average. I think shes good looking and has a good personality. Shes shy (well was, but now she isn't). So anyways, heres my problem. I asked her out on a date. I DJ'd her and all of that, and she said she wouldn't mind fvcking me and joking around with friends with benefits, and she said she wouldn't mind that either. I dunno if she was jokin or not, but whatever.

We were supposed to do something this weekend, but we got snowed in. We both couldn't go out because of ice and snow. Of course she was online most of the day... I avoided that, but anyhow, she thinks that I like her now since I asked her on a date. I got online and she says she deffinatly wants to still go on it and hang out more often.

Thats all cool and stuff, but at school tommorow, how do I act around her? Normal? Kino? If so, how to go about it? Actually shes done a little kino with me which she doesn't do with anyone else. Good or bad? Thanks for your help.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Why do you need to change your behavior for a chick? Doing so drops you down from DJ status right back to AFC.

Don't do anything differently, be C+F, bust her balls, and have fun with it. No matter what happens, DO NOT CHANGE YOUR DJ BEHAVIOR FOR ANY GIRL. It seems that her IL is above 50%, now it's your job to crank it up a few notches

 

[crimsonclockwork]

I was talking about kino and such at school. Thanks for the advice though.

A few more things I have noticed:
Shy girls-what to do?
She thinks Im too insensitive (damnn dj'ing working) what to do here as well?

 

[Symmetrical Perfection]

In the words of the great DJ Bible DON'T BE AFRAID TO BE A MAN!. Men have this image today they need to be totally in touch with their emotions and all that bull****. Don't change, she likes you already don't alter the pattern. Why **** with success?
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16903

I have such few posts because I have spent this time following the boot camp and reading the bible. I guarantee 99.9% of your questions are answered in there someway or another

 

[crimsonclockwork]

Interesting read. Thank you for the link. Now I just have to figure out exactly what I want and how to get it.

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
I was talking about kino and such at school. Thanks for the advice though.

A few more things I have noticed:
Shy girls-what to do?
She thinks Im too insensitive (damnn dj'ing working) what to do here as well?

With shy girls just leep persuing some answers out of her, keep chatting her up until you find something she really likes to talk about and then go from there. If she is uber nervous and not talking, then find another girl to talk to.

About being insensitive: it sounds like a test to me. She wants to see if you'll change your behavior just for her. Don't give in, bust on her for it ("If I'm so insensitive then how come you like me so much?"). If she does the "I can't believe you just said that" face, follow it up with mocking a hardcore AFC for a bit, then stopping to laugh your ass off. Smile. Look at her. Repeat

Basically you just need to have fun with it! Who cares what happens, there will be a million other chances to DJ if your current endeavor falls through.

 

[crimsonclockwork]

Somewhat of a field report

Having fun with it. Deffinatly! Im no noob at the whole DJ business. She isn't my main priority in life, but anyways.

Today was good. Initiated kino yesterday, and alittle today too. She seems to be opening up alot more too. Any more ideas about kino though? Im at a loss on what to do at school. Hugging seems a little retarded to me (but correct me if Im wrong). What could I do while Im walking with her to a class or something small like that. Thanks.

 

[SnatchJP]

Originally posted by crimsonclockwork
Hugging seems a little retarded to me (but correct me if Im wrong).

You're wrong. (Consider yourself corrected)

I wouldn't do it every five minutes, but it's a good way to say hi the first time you see her. Aside from that, arm acros the shoulders or around the waist is good (unless she pulls away of course, but I don't think she will.)

 

[crimsonclockwork]

Interesting. Today I didn't really mean to hug her (but it happened anyway sort of) and she hugged back. I guess this is positive. Is there such thing as half way kino? Leading on somewhat, but making her do the rest? Almost like teasing. Oh well, I guess I'll do more of that tommorow.

 

[Need-2-B-Pimpin]

Yeah, I've figured out lately that when I use dirty jokes and innuendoI used to think would piss off girls, they rarely get pissed off and usually laugh. And I don't like overly prude chicks anyways.