how to act when...

[Scought]

I got a question.
What do you do or say when this happens.

Met a girl...few nights later we make out and what not, and she is diggin me wants to call etc.

Next time my boy sees some dude in her arm

Obviously we arent together, talking or dating.

BUt when i go to call h er what do i say?

Never mention it?

say i heard she was with some dude, and if its like that she can stroll?

NOt sure what to do...no one wants to date a girl that is like that, but i am not in a position to get upset of jealous

How would you all bring attention to th is?

Thanks for the help

 

[quest]

personally, i would ignore it. bone her. and then next her.
however, if you want a LTR with her, you'd be best to scope out who this guy was because it could just be a friend, friends of mine lie in my arms sometimes. get a mutual friend to tell you about it as one of her friends couldn't be trusted.

 

[Ginobili]

I wouldn't bring it up and ignore it.

 

[TheNonPedant]

Personally, I would ditch the girl...isn't it obvious she is using you for attention? Please tell me it was obvious...?

 

[Mav]

Ignore it.

a) It could have been innocent
b) There's no way you can bring it up without sounding AFC.
c) You already sound like you're exhibiting symptoms of oneitis.

Call, and make sure you get control of the situation back.


Mav

 

[Scought]

True

I will ignore it.

I just know that if i mess around continuosuly with her, inevitably I will get some feelings.

I cant be totally cold with women, and Im sure others have this problem.

It would just suck for things to escalate, and find out she is a tad promiscuous
I have to already know she is a lil freaky since she messed around with me, in a short time frame.

I shouldnt get ahead of myself i may call, and she might not call back

 

[white_hype]

CALL HER OUT ON IT!!! and interigate her over every guy she talks to to see "WUT UP WIT DAT BABEZ?"

wtf do you care if a girl you just met hooks up with another guy, only care about this stuff when you are dating her (if you choose to)

just keep in mind this chick COULD be doing other guys (not sure about the arm around the guy) and this should encourage you to get other prospects too

 

[Mikelo2k]

Just a reminder, if she's promiscuous then make sure you wear protection I'd say use her as a **** buddy mostly, she seems like a good candidate for that sorta thing



Mikelo2k

 

[Tao of Steve]

.

you just met her, so there is no obligation from either of you. just like if you go out with a women once, that does not mean you have to cut out all other dating. when you have only went out with a person once, it is not really your/my buisiness who they date.

if you bring it up, u will look jealous, needy, and seem like you don't go out with many women. just imagine if you went out with a lady once, and she calls u and says 'my friend saw u with someone else', she would appear flaky, and u would loose intrest win her.

remember the words of bart simpson; when with girls 'keep it light and brezzy, thats my motto'.

 

[OpenMind]

She is just doing what you should be.... its called dating multiple people... you two aren't exclusive so why should she not be out with a different guy every night of the week? This is exactly what you should be doing and if you were dating multiple women you wouldn't even be concerned about her dating other men.. dont say a word to her about this and go find 5 other women to date! good luck!