"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how to act in certain situations

obijuan

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You have to do something or it will never end. These guys don't have special powers, they can't read you, they try this sh*t on everybody. If you pay close attention most guys will joke back with them, subtly putting them back in their place. You can do this, you can stare, look away, and shake your head as you walk away. You can talk sh*t and laugh at them with other employees, because these guys definitely have enemies. Or you can kick them in the balls and punch them in the stomach. Just do something, don't sit and take it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrBond_Age

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I usually go by this rule: If they insult you you insult them back, if they fight you you fight them back.

For instance, I met someone I was always in disagreement with on the internet. His kind likes to fight when they run out of arguments or when they are proven wrong.

Well the guy was with 20 of his buddies and "trapped me". Dont get me wrong, in normal circumstances, I would have fought up to 3 or 4 of them but at that point it was just suicidal. I had to flee and it litterally sucked. The guy wanted to have a 1 on 1 with me but the thing is that he was with 20 of his friends. Im not a coward but Im not an idiot. I know they would have jumped me all at the same time if I had kicked his ass real bad.

I cant wait to find him alone...
 

McEwan

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Bond_age:

I feel Jackie Chan (one of my heroes) put it best when he said:

"I might be crazy, but I'm not stupid."

Just because you can fight doesn't mean you have to. Running is often the best option. It's only when you HAVE NO CHOICE, i.e. to defend yourself or others from immediate harm, that you have to fight.
 
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