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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to act around or make use of girl's friends?

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How do you act around a girl's friends, classmates, co-workers, etc?

I've found it pretty effective to play up the cool and (yes) sweet guy around the friends more than you would ever do around the girl...but to always game the girl using the tactics described on this board. Bottom line is girls talk and what you are doing here is influencing your reputation...I'd rather have the girl hear that I'm a great guy and do cool things than to hear that I was acting all mysterious around her friend. That only seems to make sense when it's one on one.

But this is the one that I haven't quite settled on...what do you say when one of the girl's friends asks you what you think about the girl? That you like her? That she's alright?
 

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Agreed, man. But it happens. Especially when you get introduced through a third party (I'm in college now and EVERYTHING here is still so high school).

And right now...I can personally think of 3 girls I am interested in whose friends I see more than her.

Anyhow, I had the direct question thing happen to me not too long ago and I changed the subject. Just wondering if anybody had any cool responses.
 
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If you ask the girls in my "friends group" about me. Some will say they love me and im a great guys. Other will say im a right bastard. I act diffrently around diffrent girls. I generally treat girl friends how they do me. I only use DJ tactics on ones i want to hit on. Which in my friends group is none atm. All the girls i am after dont know my friends.
 
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