"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to Achieve Emotional Control

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This is probably the most important aspect of our lives/game - emotional control - which directly influences personal power. Having set new goals for myself, I realize that there are going to be lots of emotional obstacles in the way as there were in the past. Not only does having emotional control give you greater power to get what you want, it also attracts those weaker (particularly females) who are looking to leech from your own personal security. Anyway, I did not write this article, but I thought I would share since it relates to the scope of this forum and summarizes so many aspects to help one achieve emotional control:

http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/tl12.shtml
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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That link provides a valuable collection of ideas. Thank you for posting it blueguy. I encourage others to consider the possibilities in mastering this skill.
 
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Wow.

Very cool stuff.

It's cool to see stuff "you've been doing right" and "you've been doing wrong" laid out like that.

In a world of AFC's, this sort of skill really sets a DJ apart from average and/or frustrated.

It's a great "how to" for DJ thinking.

Good find!


.... tips, sticky, bible material, etc.
 
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Excellent. Thanks, blueguy! :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bonhomme said:
Excellent. Thanks, blueguy! :up:
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Yeah i've been reading this because i KNOW that i'm a basket case emotionally. People swear that i'm bipolar. So basically.. what i want to know is how many people have DONE this and what can you tell everyone here that'll make this stick.
 
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