"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to Achieve Emotional Control

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This is probably the most important aspect of our lives/game - emotional control - which directly influences personal power. Having set new goals for myself, I realize that there are going to be lots of emotional obstacles in the way as there were in the past. Not only does having emotional control give you greater power to get what you want, it also attracts those weaker (particularly females) who are looking to leech from your own personal security. Anyway, I did not write this article, but I thought I would share since it relates to the scope of this forum and summarizes so many aspects to help one achieve emotional control:

http://www.buildfreedom.com/tl/tl12.shtml
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That link provides a valuable collection of ideas. Thank you for posting it blueguy. I encourage others to consider the possibilities in mastering this skill.
 
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Wow.

Very cool stuff.

It's cool to see stuff "you've been doing right" and "you've been doing wrong" laid out like that.

In a world of AFC's, this sort of skill really sets a DJ apart from average and/or frustrated.

It's a great "how to" for DJ thinking.

Good find!


.... tips, sticky, bible material, etc.
 
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Excellent. Thanks, blueguy! :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bonhomme said:
Excellent. Thanks, blueguy! :up:
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Yeah i've been reading this because i KNOW that i'm a basket case emotionally. People swear that i'm bipolar. So basically.. what i want to know is how many people have DONE this and what can you tell everyone here that'll make this stick.
 
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