“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How the hell should I respond?

bridgetoofar

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Had some interest in this girl a while back.

Long story short: nothing really came out of it.

Deleted her from social networking sites, etc.

A few days ago got a random text from her: "Why did you delete me off Facebook, ass?"

Still haven't responded and I don't know if I should.

Ideas?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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bridgetoofar said:
Had some interest in this girl a while back.

Long story short: nothing really came out of it.

Deleted her from social networking sites, etc.

A few days ago got a random text from her: "Why did you delete me off Facebook, ass?"

Still haven't responded and I don't know if I should.

Ideas?

I got a killer line up my sleeve in these situations.

Just say: "do I know you?". If she's an AW, that line drives them nuts and they will go into a self-righteous tirade like only a woman could!
 

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LOL, that does seem like a strange thing to do.

As far as a response, how about: "Dunno, I suppose u can add me back ;)". If she does, you've got the frame and can take it from there.

The way to fail this encounter is to add her back yourself.
 

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@dap as soon as she found out she already sent me a friend request trying to add me back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Then respond: "I dunno. Should I accept ur request? ;)"

Make her say yes.

Edit: In general, I wouldn't delete people from Fb. Seems kind of reactionary. If you don't want to see their shiit anymore, just block them from your newsfeed.
 

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Thought you were gonna stalk me.
 

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"ass??? well if you are offering ;-) "
 

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Easy, you knock her down with the truth. Tell her "I don't like keeping people on my list that don't talk to me".

The attention whoring from girls on social media sites is out of hand. Fųckin A!
 

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VladPatton said:
Easy, you knock her down with the truth. Tell her "I don't like keeping people on my list that don't talk to me".
Seems petty and reactionary = bad idea.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bridgetoofar said:
Had some interest in this girl a while back.

Long story short: nothing really came out of it.

Deleted her from social networking sites, etc.

A few days ago got a random text from her: "Why did you delete me off Facebook, ass?"
This is tricky, you can't get emotional in texts but she swore at you, where is Harry W when you need him.

I would stay away from anything ****y and funny. Perhaps a text back "Watch your language when you are talking to me. You ignored my calls a while back, didn't see any reason to keep you on."
 
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