"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How the hell should I respond?

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Had some interest in this girl a while back.

Long story short: nothing really came out of it.

Deleted her from social networking sites, etc.

A few days ago got a random text from her: "Why did you delete me off Facebook, ass?"

Still haven't responded and I don't know if I should.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bridgetoofar said:
Had some interest in this girl a while back.

Long story short: nothing really came out of it.

Deleted her from social networking sites, etc.

A few days ago got a random text from her: "Why did you delete me off Facebook, ass?"

Still haven't responded and I don't know if I should.

Ideas?
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I got a killer line up my sleeve in these situations.

Just say: "do I know you?". If she's an AW, that line drives them nuts and they will go into a self-righteous tirade like only a woman could!
 
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LOL, that does seem like a strange thing to do.

As far as a response, how about: "Dunno, I suppose u can add me back ;)". If she does, you've got the frame and can take it from there.

The way to fail this encounter is to add her back yourself.
 
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@dap as soon as she found out she already sent me a friend request trying to add me back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Then respond: "I dunno. Should I accept ur request? ;)"

Make her say yes.

Edit: In general, I wouldn't delete people from Fb. Seems kind of reactionary. If you don't want to see their shiit anymore, just block them from your newsfeed.
 
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Thought you were gonna stalk me.
 
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"ass??? well if you are offering ;-) "
 
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Easy, you knock her down with the truth. Tell her "I don't like keeping people on my list that don't talk to me".

The attention whoring from girls on social media sites is out of hand. Fųckin A!
 
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VladPatton said:
Easy, you knock her down with the truth. Tell her "I don't like keeping people on my list that don't talk to me".
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Seems petty and reactionary = bad idea.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bridgetoofar said:
Had some interest in this girl a while back.

Long story short: nothing really came out of it.

Deleted her from social networking sites, etc.

A few days ago got a random text from her: "Why did you delete me off Facebook, ass?"
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This is tricky, you can't get emotional in texts but she swore at you, where is Harry W when you need him.

I would stay away from anything ****y and funny. Perhaps a text back "Watch your language when you are talking to me. You ignored my calls a while back, didn't see any reason to keep you on."
 
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