Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How often does that happen? Every guy has his shining moment once in a while, regardless of his level in the game.I have a pretty cool, fun, laid back personality when I can finally relax and open up to people.
Um, if the girl is at all attractive, there is always competition, whether you're aware of it or not. Man up. We're meant to compete. If you don't want competition, the only girls you'll get will be the war hogs that no guy is after.Thats exactly what I've been trying to do with one girl. This is the second semester that we are in a class together. What sucks now is that there are two other guys who are talking to her. Last year it was pretty much just me. And yeah I move way too slowly. I basically got a second chance, but now there is competition.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
HALLELUJAH! HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH! HALLELUJAH! HALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLELUJAH!Jitterbug said:Maxtro, you've been here for nearly 4 years now. Maybe you should've read the DJ Bible, the thousands of useful advices in the forum and practiced them?
I've only registered this year but I've been a reader for some time. This site is a goldmine, but you need to do something with the gold you get here. Sitting around rubbing your arse with the golden nuggets won't create any magic.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bingo, exactly the same. Infact I know lots of people who seem to have it together but it amounts to nothing. Basically the women are too sought after. Then add in things like the women at my uni only look at you if you are white and middle class and it's game over.tsmith2334 said:Not true at all. No other prospects? Try every other male on campus. And the most attractive girls are usually already taken to begin with.
Meeting girls is one thing, but there is no guarentee about getting laid. I'm above average in looks and conduct myself pretty well, I'm well liked and have lots of friends, often see plenty of IOIs and # close, I go on this site and understand the do's and don'ts, and still can't get laid for sh1t at a University.
i thought i couldn't help you because i have no idea what a jr. college atmosphere is like... but then i saw you ll be going to a bigger school.Maxtro said:I will be going to a bigger university in August but I don't think it will be any easier to get girls.