"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how tall is to tall?

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6ft 10? Christ dangling off a cliff with one arm and itchy testicles. I'm only kidding, you're not too tall. No man can ever be too tall. I am 5'5 and I am always told that "I'm too short", "Girls will reject you because you're short", "taller men protect their women better" etc. You name it I've heard it. It's definitely a bigger bonus to be tall, that's for sure. But you are born the way you are. We're all different and you have to accept things that you cannot change. I have accepted my height and I'm happy with it, comfortable with it. If women don't like me because of my height then that's their preference and more power to them. You need to have the same attitude. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wataf said:
im 6'4 girl says im tall i usualy say "i don't know if your tall enough for this ride" give her a wink and light kino and its on

Nice! I'm gonna have to use that one!
 

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oxford comma said:
were you born retarded or did you have to work at it?
First of all, what's your problem? What are you a 7 foot tall troll yourself or just an as$? Buddy, being this tall is like sticking a square peg into a round hole. P.S. I ve just read all of your posts on here, practically all of them reek of negativity.
 

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PapiChulo said:
First of all, what's your problem? What are you a 7 foot tall troll yourself or just an as$? Buddy, being this tall is like sticking a square peg into a round hole. P.S. I ve just read all of your posts on here, practically all of them reek of negativity.
You are an idiot.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell her you're only 5 foot 22. Chicks can't do conversions lol.

But seriously you can't be too tall, too rich, or too good looking.

Your confidence should be through the roof. What girl or guy would intimidate a guy your height? None.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
You are an idiot.
And you are oxfordcoma? I wish I ve gotten a dollar every time a whiny teenager told me that.
 

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PapiChulo said:
And you are oxfordcoma? I wish I ve gotten a dollar every time a whiny teenager told me that.
i'll give you a dollar if you promise to never give advice on here again.
 

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This entire thread is retarded anyways, let's be honest.

This whole thing is personal preference. I think 6'10 is *too* tall. But the next guy/ girl might not.

The best thing you can do is quit being insecure about it and just be confident and pursue what you want.(JUST LIKE EVERYONE!)

Some girls might think you are too tall, some might not. The only way to find out is to try.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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asking if you're too tall is like asking if your ****'s too big lol..
 

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PapiChulo said:

no, i meant what i said. the last thing this forum needs is another guy perpetuating the idea that looks are more important than game. his height isn't affecting his chances with women, his negative self image sure as hell is though. now let me guess what your response will be. "but women prefer guys that aren't extremely tall!". According to who? Girls? Girls don't know what the hell they want. We show them what they want by acting like the men they are attracted to on a primal level. paypal me your penis, you obviously don't need it.
 
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