"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how tall is to tall?

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6ft 10? Christ dangling off a cliff with one arm and itchy testicles. I'm only kidding, you're not too tall. No man can ever be too tall. I am 5'5 and I am always told that "I'm too short", "Girls will reject you because you're short", "taller men protect their women better" etc. You name it I've heard it. It's definitely a bigger bonus to be tall, that's for sure. But you are born the way you are. We're all different and you have to accept things that you cannot change. I have accepted my height and I'm happy with it, comfortable with it. If women don't like me because of my height then that's their preference and more power to them. You need to have the same attitude. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wataf said:
im 6'4 girl says im tall i usualy say "i don't know if your tall enough for this ride" give her a wink and light kino and its on

Nice! I'm gonna have to use that one!
 

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oxford comma said:
were you born retarded or did you have to work at it?
First of all, what's your problem? What are you a 7 foot tall troll yourself or just an as$? Buddy, being this tall is like sticking a square peg into a round hole. P.S. I ve just read all of your posts on here, practically all of them reek of negativity.
 

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PapiChulo said:
First of all, what's your problem? What are you a 7 foot tall troll yourself or just an as$? Buddy, being this tall is like sticking a square peg into a round hole. P.S. I ve just read all of your posts on here, practically all of them reek of negativity.
You are an idiot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tell her you're only 5 foot 22. Chicks can't do conversions lol.

But seriously you can't be too tall, too rich, or too good looking.

Your confidence should be through the roof. What girl or guy would intimidate a guy your height? None.
 

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SamTheHobit said:
You are an idiot.
And you are oxfordcoma? I wish I ve gotten a dollar every time a whiny teenager told me that.
 

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PapiChulo said:
And you are oxfordcoma? I wish I ve gotten a dollar every time a whiny teenager told me that.
i'll give you a dollar if you promise to never give advice on here again.
 

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This entire thread is retarded anyways, let's be honest.

This whole thing is personal preference. I think 6'10 is *too* tall. But the next guy/ girl might not.

The best thing you can do is quit being insecure about it and just be confident and pursue what you want.(JUST LIKE EVERYONE!)

Some girls might think you are too tall, some might not. The only way to find out is to try.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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asking if you're too tall is like asking if your ****'s too big lol..
 

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PapiChulo said:

no, i meant what i said. the last thing this forum needs is another guy perpetuating the idea that looks are more important than game. his height isn't affecting his chances with women, his negative self image sure as hell is though. now let me guess what your response will be. "but women prefer guys that aren't extremely tall!". According to who? Girls? Girls don't know what the hell they want. We show them what they want by acting like the men they are attracted to on a primal level. paypal me your penis, you obviously don't need it.
 
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