"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How sosuave is changing my life

donjuanapprentice01

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When I came on here, I was a very bitter person, as some of you may recall with my first posts. (do a search for my name if you want to see how bad I was) I had a case of oneitis with a chick that I fell for and I screwed up bigtime. It was tough to get through, but with sosuave, I now have mustered the courage to start asking girls out. Hell, I asked one out today and she said sure, so over the span of a couple of weeks I have a couple of prospects now. The girl I was interested in is more or less history, although I am considering patching things up with her and being friends (because she WAS a good friend, just that i wanted more and i guess it made her feel uncomfortable)

So, I just wanted to say that this community has done alot for my self confidence and has helped me rid myself of some deep seated flaws. Oh yeah, and getting some dates too! :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kk2004

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wow

Either your great with mind control or your you dont have deep seaded fears bro, because I know some people with deep seated fears and it takes years not weeks to get rid of them.
 

Futuristic

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Originally posted by donjuanapprentice01
When I came on here, I was a very bitter person, as some of you may recall with my first posts. (do a search for my name if you want to see how bad I was) I had a case of oneitis with a chick that I fell for and I screwed up bigtime. It was tough to get through, but with sosuave, I now have mustered the courage to start asking girls out. Hell, I asked one out today and she said sure, so over the span of a couple of weeks I have a couple of prospects now. The girl I was interested in is more or less history, although I am considering patching things up with her and being friends (because she WAS a good friend, just that i wanted more and i guess it made her feel uncomfortable)

So, I just wanted to say that this community has done alot for my self confidence and has helped me rid myself of some deep seated flaws. Oh yeah, and getting some dates too! :D
Awesome man:cool:. Keep us posted on how you're doing.
 

Logen

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Re: wow

Originally posted by kk2004
Either your great with mind control or your you dont have deep seaded fears bro, because I know some people with deep seated fears and it takes years not weeks to get rid of them.
really?

i think getting over those deed seeded fears is just going for it. like jumping in a pool of icy water. just dive in instead of easing in slowly and painfully.
 
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