"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How sosuave is changing my life

donjuanapprentice01

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When I came on here, I was a very bitter person, as some of you may recall with my first posts. (do a search for my name if you want to see how bad I was) I had a case of oneitis with a chick that I fell for and I screwed up bigtime. It was tough to get through, but with sosuave, I now have mustered the courage to start asking girls out. Hell, I asked one out today and she said sure, so over the span of a couple of weeks I have a couple of prospects now. The girl I was interested in is more or less history, although I am considering patching things up with her and being friends (because she WAS a good friend, just that i wanted more and i guess it made her feel uncomfortable)

So, I just wanted to say that this community has done alot for my self confidence and has helped me rid myself of some deep seated flaws. Oh yeah, and getting some dates too! :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kk2004

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wow

Either your great with mind control or your you dont have deep seaded fears bro, because I know some people with deep seated fears and it takes years not weeks to get rid of them.
 

Futuristic

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Originally posted by donjuanapprentice01
When I came on here, I was a very bitter person, as some of you may recall with my first posts. (do a search for my name if you want to see how bad I was) I had a case of oneitis with a chick that I fell for and I screwed up bigtime. It was tough to get through, but with sosuave, I now have mustered the courage to start asking girls out. Hell, I asked one out today and she said sure, so over the span of a couple of weeks I have a couple of prospects now. The girl I was interested in is more or less history, although I am considering patching things up with her and being friends (because she WAS a good friend, just that i wanted more and i guess it made her feel uncomfortable)

So, I just wanted to say that this community has done alot for my self confidence and has helped me rid myself of some deep seated flaws. Oh yeah, and getting some dates too! :D
Awesome man:cool:. Keep us posted on how you're doing.
 

Logen

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Re: wow

Originally posted by kk2004
Either your great with mind control or your you dont have deep seaded fears bro, because I know some people with deep seated fears and it takes years not weeks to get rid of them.
really?

i think getting over those deed seeded fears is just going for it. like jumping in a pool of icy water. just dive in instead of easing in slowly and painfully.
 
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