How soon is "too soon" for a date after the call?

[guru1000]

Wait you just broke all the rules. WTF.

Yes :yes:

The question is with which kind of mindset do i tackle the issue?

 

[DonGorgon]

It depends on the character quality of the woman:

LOW - quick date
HIGH - take your time

 

[reset]

The question is with which kind of mindset do i tackle the issue?

Yeah, lol.

 

[iqqi]

Well I have already said I have a "fear of commitment", lol, so that is partially why I don't make plans way in advance.

But besides me, and just in general, I think the first date or two shouldn't seem like some big deal that you need more than a week to plan for. 3-4 days in advance is ideal. Call on a Sunday, make plans for a Wed or Thurs.

Because #1, it should be fresh in her mind, and... I just can't think of a reason to make a date very far in advance, but I can think of quite a few why you shouldn't! It has nothing to do with quality, you don't know jack about a chick's quality until you've went out a few times with her.

STR8UP's thing of not calling til a few hours before is taking it too far, IMO. That isn't even a date! That's a "if you aren't doing anything now" spur of the moment thing.

3-4 days is ideal.