"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How slutty of clothes do women going to church wear?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Atom Smasher

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The bible itself admonishes women to dress appropriately in order to avoid tempting men to lust.

The biggest reason I sit up front is because I want to pay attention to the message and if I see a pair of legs or some skin I'm going to be doing battle the entire time, with my attention divided between the woman and the teaching.

Church isn't the place to run around half naked. If I understand your question correctly, you want to know how they are dressing these days. It probably varies geographically and somewhat denominationally, but they show lots of leg, sometimes transparent shirts, basically dressing exactly the same as they do outside of church.
 

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I haven't been to a Catholic Church in a few years, but I remember being surprised at how hot all the young ladies were dressing. They were showing plenty of skin. I've been to a newer rock and roll type church since then a few times and the way the women dressed was more casual, but the skin didn't seem to be more noticeable for some reason.
 

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Love the top comment.

Jim Myers · Top Commenter · Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Man the f&$# up guys! Your lusts are your issue. A woman should be safe even naked in your presence. If she isn't it is YOUR fault, not hers.
Safe vs. Creating lust are two different things. I used to see a lot of women dressing provocatively at church and getting a lot of attention from the ministers and deacons which was one of the things that turned me off organized religion.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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scrouds said:
What's the best way to find the best chuches with good ratios?
I think they all have fairly good ratios in our favor (Am speaking of Christian only). I find the catholic has the most ethnics (tons of Asian). Pentecostal is the oddest with not a bad mix.

I've not been in a while, and never because I have any faith, but every time I went, there were hungries everywhere attempting eye contact.

I think if used these places as an option, I'd play in the catholic denomination. The more god fearing, the more gullible (that's just my opinion - not to start a religious debate - I know nothing of that!).

SH
 

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Dear MDJ,
The seats at Gods right hand in Paradise are few in number,those who are first to seek lustful opportunities in Gods house,will be last to reserve such seats!
 

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I can just see all the moistening panties as you talk about how you're struggling real hard to reform your bad boy ways.
 

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scrouds said:
I can just see all the moistening panties as you talk about how you're struggling real hard to reform your bad boy ways.
Think this was directed at me, don't understand the condescension.
Sharing an insight to your question is all.

Reforming my bad boy ways?
Nope, anyone who has read my threads knows ... I'm on sabbatical.
Wet panties? I'm 50.

But hey, good luck!

SH
 
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