"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How slutty of clothes do women going to church wear?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The bible itself admonishes women to dress appropriately in order to avoid tempting men to lust.

The biggest reason I sit up front is because I want to pay attention to the message and if I see a pair of legs or some skin I'm going to be doing battle the entire time, with my attention divided between the woman and the teaching.

Church isn't the place to run around half naked. If I understand your question correctly, you want to know how they are dressing these days. It probably varies geographically and somewhat denominationally, but they show lots of leg, sometimes transparent shirts, basically dressing exactly the same as they do outside of church.
 

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I haven't been to a Catholic Church in a few years, but I remember being surprised at how hot all the young ladies were dressing. They were showing plenty of skin. I've been to a newer rock and roll type church since then a few times and the way the women dressed was more casual, but the skin didn't seem to be more noticeable for some reason.
 

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Love the top comment.

Jim Myers · Top Commenter · Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Man the f&$# up guys! Your lusts are your issue. A woman should be safe even naked in your presence. If she isn't it is YOUR fault, not hers.
Safe vs. Creating lust are two different things. I used to see a lot of women dressing provocatively at church and getting a lot of attention from the ministers and deacons which was one of the things that turned me off organized religion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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scrouds said:
What's the best way to find the best chuches with good ratios?
I think they all have fairly good ratios in our favor (Am speaking of Christian only). I find the catholic has the most ethnics (tons of Asian). Pentecostal is the oddest with not a bad mix.

I've not been in a while, and never because I have any faith, but every time I went, there were hungries everywhere attempting eye contact.

I think if used these places as an option, I'd play in the catholic denomination. The more god fearing, the more gullible (that's just my opinion - not to start a religious debate - I know nothing of that!).

SH
 

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Dear MDJ,
The seats at Gods right hand in Paradise are few in number,those who are first to seek lustful opportunities in Gods house,will be last to reserve such seats!
 

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I can just see all the moistening panties as you talk about how you're struggling real hard to reform your bad boy ways.
 

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scrouds said:
I can just see all the moistening panties as you talk about how you're struggling real hard to reform your bad boy ways.
Think this was directed at me, don't understand the condescension.
Sharing an insight to your question is all.

Reforming my bad boy ways?
Nope, anyone who has read my threads knows ... I'm on sabbatical.
Wet panties? I'm 50.

But hey, good luck!

SH
 
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