"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How sick is too sick?

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There's a girl I was planning to see today. I still have money from my birthday last week and I thought it'd be fun to see a movie with this chick. She may or may not have a boyfriend, but she's never mentioned him to me. It's also finals week and this is the last free day I have before I take them.

But the last 2 days I've had a bit of a cold. Sniffly, coughing every once in a while, sneezing every once in a while. And I'm just wondering if I'm too sick to hang out with this girl and end up wasting my time and money?

I'd like the last girl I hooked up with this year to NOT be my wh*** of an ex, but I'm not sure if I'd be forcing it today. Lemme know what you guys think.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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jesus Christ. u have to ask OTHERS if you are too sick? That's so fvcking lame.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think it really comes down to you. If you're too sick in the sense that you feel you cannot have fun and have the potential of ruining the event for both you and her by constant sneezing and etc., then yeah probably reschedule. But otherwise, I say go for it.
 
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