"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How sick is too sick?

BPH

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There's a girl I was planning to see today. I still have money from my birthday last week and I thought it'd be fun to see a movie with this chick. She may or may not have a boyfriend, but she's never mentioned him to me. It's also finals week and this is the last free day I have before I take them.

But the last 2 days I've had a bit of a cold. Sniffly, coughing every once in a while, sneezing every once in a while. And I'm just wondering if I'm too sick to hang out with this girl and end up wasting my time and money?

I'd like the last girl I hooked up with this year to NOT be my wh*** of an ex, but I'm not sure if I'd be forcing it today. Lemme know what you guys think.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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twentee

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jesus Christ. u have to ask OTHERS if you are too sick? That's so fvcking lame.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blistex

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I think it really comes down to you. If you're too sick in the sense that you feel you cannot have fun and have the potential of ruining the event for both you and her by constant sneezing and etc., then yeah probably reschedule. But otherwise, I say go for it.
 
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