I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
^^ Yes, this. ^^SandHawk said:
This is bettathanu mods note the similarities in writing.Toni you are an evil person you could start by showing me some respect not playing mind games.Not having me still and vandalize cars get caught stealimg for you,or whatever. Tell everone why I don't work how you told people you were going to divorce me and that I beat you. You wanted me to be perfect if you looked at pictures of us together you would realise that I was your soul mate. I litterally stole for you. Hey why don't we go to some counseling. No, oh well I tried.Your biggest complaint is I was mean to you Why did you write your ex bf a week before fathers day. I'm by no means perfect but I deserve someone who treated me better.I just thank you for not beliving in the bible and realsing me to someone better. Who I was'nt going to call cause I thought we were togetherReady2improve said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I would say work it out with him I have not heard any excuses on why you guys couldn't do that. If you do work it out respect him andd ask (politely) that he respects you. If he doesn't work help him find a job don't b.s with him learn to communicate better. Lastly how can you know if you aren't meant to be if you don't give him a chance. I'm against marriage but he probably loves his family and don't wanna see it broken up. Read some stuff by pook look at movie not easily brokenI need more examples of how he was mean. If he was abusive you would have said thatReady2improve said:
