Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
^^ Yes, this. ^^SandHawk said:
This is bettathanu mods note the similarities in writing.Toni you are an evil person you could start by showing me some respect not playing mind games.Not having me still and vandalize cars get caught stealimg for you,or whatever. Tell everone why I don't work how you told people you were going to divorce me and that I beat you. You wanted me to be perfect if you looked at pictures of us together you would realise that I was your soul mate. I litterally stole for you. Hey why don't we go to some counseling. No, oh well I tried.Your biggest complaint is I was mean to you Why did you write your ex bf a week before fathers day. I'm by no means perfect but I deserve someone who treated me better.I just thank you for not beliving in the bible and realsing me to someone better. Who I was'nt going to call cause I thought we were togetherReady2improve said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I would say work it out with him I have not heard any excuses on why you guys couldn't do that. If you do work it out respect him andd ask (politely) that he respects you. If he doesn't work help him find a job don't b.s with him learn to communicate better. Lastly how can you know if you aren't meant to be if you don't give him a chance. I'm against marriage but he probably loves his family and don't wanna see it broken up. Read some stuff by pook look at movie not easily brokenI need more examples of how he was mean. If he was abusive you would have said thatReady2improve said:
